We are aware.
i would even argue that MILF isnt a word for a sexually active woman. its more a term for what someone would like to do to that woman. but doesnt necessarily say anything about the woman themselves.
Totally agree- I think thats true of all the words in that category. Saying a woman is hot doesnt mean youre saying she has sex- its saying you would like to have sex with her. Its about you and your sexual desire, not hers. She is just an object, a desirable object, whose sexuality is deemed not wholly relevant. There is no positive word for a sexually active woman.